issue solved,
It just a problem wrong port number for zookeeper in slider-client.xml
i set 2180 instead of 2181 for zookeeper 
but the error on destroy was not so clear, i was think issue about utf8 and not issuer with port configuration, it is working fine
destroy is working, but i don’t understand why it not fail before.
hduser@stargate:/usr/local/slider$ ./bin/slider destroy cl1
2015-05-15 17:53:33,772 [main] INFO client.RMProxy – Connecting to ResourceManager at stargate/192.168.0.11:8032
2015-05-15 17:53:34,074 [main] INFO zk.BlockingZKWatcher – waiting for ZK event
2015-05-15 17:53:34,183 [main-EventThread] INFO zk.BlockingZKWatcher – ZK binding callback received
2015-05-15 17:53:35,484 [main] INFO client.SliderClient – Destroyed cluster cl1
2015-05-15 17:53:35,487 [main] INFO util.ExitUtil – Exiting with status 0